How do you feel about yours. I’d say that I’m a cuck in nature and while watching Porn I’ve had fantasies about people who even disagree with me politically to be my father figures and even fucking my mom.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    3 days ago

    Not sure if I find it embarrassing anymore, but annoying for sure when objectively jerky behavior turns me on and pisses me off at the same time.

  • SluttySalamander@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    16 days ago

    I really like being bit and feel a little embarrassed about it. Especially because it often leaves marks. Not very freaky compared to some kinks I know but I wish I could just not care and people wouldn’t judge. That’s not the world we live in.

    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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      10 days ago

      I don’t know why you’d be embarassed, but maybe I’ve simply forgotten some category of how to feel shame.

      Are you getting bitten/hickies on highly visible areas?

      … there are many places one can bite that aren’t easily visible.

      Do you go all the way up to breaking skin and bleeding, or just a quick chomp… or more like little, targetted nibbles?

      • SluttySalamander@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        3·
        8 days ago

        No it’s just bruising, breaking the skin would be too much for me.

        I just don’t like having to worry about where the marks end up or wearing the right clothes to cover them. It would be nice if everyone just accepted kink as normal.

        • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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          6 days ago

          Ah, ok, so… basically hickies? Or more like chomps?

          I guess I am kind of confused… in my experience, bruises from biting either come from sucking for a long time, or from biting pretty hard, pretty fast, but just barely not hard enough that it does not actually break skin.

          Beyond that though… on the one hand, I get that being judged for a kink sucks, but on the other hand… significant, consistent bruising is generally a highly noticable thing, and most people are noticing it because a bruise is a sign of an injury.

          Like, I did a fair amount of martial arts, would often have various levels of cuts or bruises or strains… and I also had to explain a fair amount of times that no, I don’t need help, I don’t need to talk in private… I do combat sports, I know basic combat medicine, I’ll be fine.

          I don’t really think there is a safe social paradigm you could have in a society where bruises are not noticable, commented on, concerning, because at the most basic level, they are noticed because of an empathy compulsion, an instinctual, genuine concern that you may be in a bad situation.

          You’d have to like, literally genetically modify humans to remove that basic pattern response, and the social behaviors that arise from it.

          And if you somehow did have a bio-social paradigm where bruises were not just concerning by default… well… you’d probably end up with a fundamentally much less empathetic species/society, that just would not be very concerned by all kinds of violence.

          And we are already a very violent species.

  • Mickey7@lemmy.worldMEnglish
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    16 days ago

    Mine is being a unicorn for a husband and wife. I do the wife as the husband cheers me on. We all take a break and then the couple asks me to please fuck the husband. The wife sucks me enough to get me nice and stiff. She lubes her husband’s ass. The husband is bent over the edge of their bed. The wife stands next to me. She inserts me into her husband’s ass. She continues to kiss me and rub my shoulders as I pound away into his ass. In just a few minutes I shoot a huge load into his ass. I back out with wobbly legs. She licks my cock clean. I collapse and she eats my cum out of his asshole. Always wanted to try it and least once.

  • zshornyposting@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    16 days ago

    Can’t quite tell the from the OP if you mean kinks you are embarrassed to have or if you mean kinks about embarrassment. To the first, I have a couple kinks that I don’t really discuss outside my partner that we have specific toys for. The second not so much, I guess I have a bit of an exhibitionism kink. Being stumbled on naked, but having the person be attracted not disturbed. Pretty basic I suppose, but not something I would ever intentionally pursue.

  • daggermoon@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    14 days ago

    I jerk off to things I fucking hate. Do those count? Like it only sounds appealing when I’m super horny, any other time i’m like “what the fuck? that sounds horrible”