Danbooru is actually what I had in mind starting the thread. Its tag system is so good!

In the recommendations we trust 🙏

You’re right that can be more fun, depending on the site.

Every tag system eventually encounters that most dastardly of creatures: the user

You’re definitely right. I am into Stag Vixen and Swinging and it feels like Stag Vixen is just the new Hotwife because people who like humiliation/cheating/cuckholding took over the Hotwife tag on every site

Yeah depending where I am I also have to -scat etc.

My partner and I are also switches! The fridge magnet is such a good idea. I love that because checking it would probably get me excited hahaha

That’s a fun way to do it. We’ve done that way a fair bit as well, but I like to have inspiration sometimes 😅

Interesting, I never would have guessed that would work well. Probably needs to be replaced pretty often to remain sanitary though.

Have a variant of this from exotic erotics. It has a suction base which has let me stick it to the shower wall to dry off and even to the ceiling of the bathroom once as a gag

You’ll definitely get some attention 😍

Good point. Even if the swing would be better, its not something everyone can or should have depending on their home

Woof! Happy to have you here. I hope you enjoy being here as much as your presence will enrich this space for others 😊

Absolutely! Some people have so much of an easier time with vibration than just manual stimulation. Restraints are definitely fun too, whether it be rope or cuffs

That’s a good recommendation. Do you have a sex swing as well? Would you recommend the pillow over that?

You are so right about the remote control eggs! Those can be so much fun!

Ulterior motives detected! 😂

Can’t quite tell the from the OP if you mean kinks you are embarrassed to have or if you mean kinks about embarrassment. To the first, I have a couple kinks that I don’t really discuss outside my partner that we have specific toys for. The second not so much, I guess I have a bit of an exhibitionism kink. Being stumbled on naked, but having the person be attracted not disturbed. Pretty basic I suppose, but not something I would ever intentionally pursue.

That’s the one thank you!

That’s a good idea! Hopefully there will be good sources for the slang there. I appreciate the old school phone sex way as well. I’ve dabbled there myself. I remember stumbling on a subreddit a while back where people would offer scripts for others to act or act those scripts themselves. Can’t remember what it was called though so that was my starting point

Not exactly what I’m looking for. I liked the premise and execution of that short story, and was inspired to write a story also exploring audio recordings. The premise of that story is the bit about two people accidentally inspiring each other to get into it. So no voice acting or anything, I just want my text to be less jarring to somebody who has experience listening to that kind of thing to get off, or making that kind of thing for others to get off to.