I will ask a real question. Are your responses muted, or you just have a hard time being interested in the first place? I remember when I was nursing and just felt so disinterested in sex, like starting below zero when usually I walk around at about +2 or so. But could get there just didn’t want to. Compared to menopause which did nothing to dampen my desire but softened the orgasms some.
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RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Describe your perfect porn sceneEnglish3·4 days agoI don’t like much scripted porn, or much of any of it, but there was one - Manuel Ferrara grabbing some obviously drugged up girl in a parking garage that looked rough and real and I did so enjoy it. She could not control anything, not herself, not him, and really looked both desperate and out of it and so pleasured too.
That’s it, really. Whatever quality that has, that is my ideal porn scene.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comto gonewild@lemmynsfw.com•Anyone fancy a 8am (est) photo from the beach?Here it is 🌞✨ I hope you enjoy my beach bum.English1·5 days agoGirl, you have such a great ass!
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•When you are receiving it in Missionary do you ever put a pillow under your ass?English5·6 days agoI put my hands under to change the angle but only with my legs up.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•What was the first kink you tried and how did it shape your future sexual preferences?English3·7 days agoFirst was someone tying me up and I didn’t like it as much as I thought, which made me think for years that fantasy was better left in fantasy. Regular sex works for me, I’ve been lucky in the libido and response department.
Many years later got to play different ways, and a lot of it really was so good in real life. Still not really into the macrame rope stuff but having someone get so turned on when I have a natural response to them taking control is one of the absolute hottest things - that feedback loop. And I found some pain really does add to pleasure for me, not a lot (there’s a point where it’s a turn off) but again if the guy like, hits me and gets hard oh my God I have the uncomfortable strong desire it bothers me but I treasure that response regardless because it’s one of the things I thought wouldn’t work in real life and it does.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•What is currently worth living for?English4·7 days agoAww, thank you. It’s nice to know someone likes them.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•I have Hypersexuality, AMA!English141·10 days agoI had a lover like this, he was a lot of fun actually. He could do me a dozen times a day, it was crazy, he never ran out and nothing he wouldn’t do. But I do think it interfered with his life quite a bit. I’m a once a day lady at least but not compulsive in any way. I just remember being so relieved to not be the one with the stronger sex drive, lol.
What would be your preferred frequency for partnered sex and how many partners do you think it would take to cover that?
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•What would you do if you found out that your mother or sister was a sex worker?English11·10 days agoMother? Be very surprised because she is dead.
Sister? She was a nude dancer when we were younger so maybe be less surprised, but she is pretty conservative now (not politically but in lifestyle) so would still be a surprise. Wouldn’t do anything, it’s her life, right?
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•How do you feel about AI generated content?English31·12 days agoI don’t like it but I like it better than people photoshopping themselves into ideal figures and then trying to pass it off as unedited.
I do like animation a lot and kind of think of AI art in that category, if a drawing can be hot, and digital art can be hot, it must be possible for AI art to be hot but I can’t say I have found any of it so.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Is sex important part of your life and your partner?English4·12 days agoYes. For me it’s the difference between a friend and a romantic partner. I cannot overstate how much my life is improved by being with a man who fucks me every day and doesn’t think I am “needy” or whatever.
He says - good sex life is an indicator of a good relationship, if the sex is bad or not enough it probably means something else is wrong.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•What was the strangest intimate living arrangement you ever had or were close to having?English4·13 days agoI have lived behind the shop and with a varying cast of characters, on the street, in a squat, in a slumlord run house next to a couple who yelled in Spanish all day, in another house with 3 families, in all sorts of situations. Not sure what was the oddest.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•My BF has lots and lots of pubic hair even on his scrotum. It gets in my eyes and nose when I am blowing him. Should I ask him if I can shave him?English2·13 days agoI think everyone should at least trim underarm hair, there is nearly nothing worse looking than the long underarm hair with deodorant clinging to it. This is not a gendered thing.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Have you ever been in a totally consensual missionary fuck with your GF and she suddenly asks you to stop?English2·16 days agoI always have my legs up face to face (that feels so good!) but it seems to shorten the available length inside me, which is great until it isn’t, lol. Doggy is crazy intense with guys with a downward curve but husband doesn’t have that.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Have you ever been in a totally consensual missionary fuck with your GF and she suddenly asks you to stop?English10·16 days agoI’ve had to stop occasionally if there is friction and micro tears happen. In missionary, I am more likely to need a rest and maybe flip to doggy because the face to face is so deep it can sometimes hurt.
You could just ask why. But stop first, then ask.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•What should I consider before selling content?English1·16 days agoNo but my children have. All got paid employment making more than you are likely to with onlyfans, but 3/4 without health insurance. (Not that you would get insurance as a streamer, either, though) Plus one went into the military. Lots of employment changes in my family this year, there is always movement in the labor market. Where I live one can always get some job but almost never a great one, our wages are always below average.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•How do I deal with TMJ with blowjobs?English4·18 days agoI have a small mouth. Like you are gonna be hitting teeth, there is not much room. Blowjobs are better when more like sloppy hand jobs IMO. Guys usually say it feels better, and it’s easier on my jaw. (If my hands are tied, that is just gonna be more like face fucking but dude is going to hit teeth, but as that’s usually a heightened and dramatic situation, they don’t care, and I figure it helps them moderate.)
My advice if you want to go longer though is hands. Not a tight grip either. But a gentle touch, spitty handjob with your mouth working as much as is sustainable for you.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Facials. And cum play in general.English11·20 days agoI don’t like it (face shot) and thankfully haven’t met anyone who wants to. It just seems dreadfully unpleasant and would be a turn off.
Stick your fingers in me after cumming in there? So hot, I can get off again from that. And yeah I wish I could do two guys bare, the sloppy seconds thing also hot to me.
But straight up playing with it, or in my face? No, it’s more of an indirect turn on, I like being cum in.
RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•What are your favorite sex playlists?English6·20 days agoSeriously? Mostly we like gentle stuff or nothing. Hammock is nice, and nice for falling asleep after, don’t have to turn it off. Leon Bridges. Haven’t tried more aggressive music, not with the husband, there is some we both like but not sure it could be sexy. Maybe that Sturgill Simpson rock album, it sounds sexy to me. I love trippy/trancy house music too (at this point I am kind of genre agnostic, like a wide variety) but husband less so.
Lovely port de bras but her butt is sticking out too far, and she’s torquing her knees.