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Cake day: July 29th, 2023

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  • I will ask a real question. Are your responses muted, or you just have a hard time being interested in the first place? I remember when I was nursing and just felt so disinterested in sex, like starting below zero when usually I walk around at about +2 or so. But could get there just didn’t want to. Compared to menopause which did nothing to dampen my desire but softened the orgasms some.


  • I don’t like much scripted porn, or much of any of it, but there was one - Manuel Ferrara grabbing some obviously drugged up girl in a parking garage that looked rough and real and I did so enjoy it. She could not control anything, not herself, not him, and really looked both desperate and out of it and so pleasured too.

    That’s it, really. Whatever quality that has, that is my ideal porn scene.




  • First was someone tying me up and I didn’t like it as much as I thought, which made me think for years that fantasy was better left in fantasy. Regular sex works for me, I’ve been lucky in the libido and response department.

    Many years later got to play different ways, and a lot of it really was so good in real life. Still not really into the macrame rope stuff but having someone get so turned on when I have a natural response to them taking control is one of the absolute hottest things - that feedback loop. And I found some pain really does add to pleasure for me, not a lot (there’s a point where it’s a turn off) but again if the guy like, hits me and gets hard oh my God I have the uncomfortable strong desire it bothers me but I treasure that response regardless because it’s one of the things I thought wouldn’t work in real life and it does.




  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comI have Hypersexuality, AMA!
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    10 days ago

    I had a lover like this, he was a lot of fun actually. He could do me a dozen times a day, it was crazy, he never ran out and nothing he wouldn’t do. But I do think it interfered with his life quite a bit. I’m a once a day lady at least but not compulsive in any way. I just remember being so relieved to not be the one with the stronger sex drive, lol.

    What would be your preferred frequency for partnered sex and how many partners do you think it would take to cover that?










  • I have a small mouth. Like you are gonna be hitting teeth, there is not much room. Blowjobs are better when more like sloppy hand jobs IMO. Guys usually say it feels better, and it’s easier on my jaw. (If my hands are tied, that is just gonna be more like face fucking but dude is going to hit teeth, but as that’s usually a heightened and dramatic situation, they don’t care, and I figure it helps them moderate.)

    My advice if you want to go longer though is hands. Not a tight grip either. But a gentle touch, spitty handjob with your mouth working as much as is sustainable for you.


  • I don’t like it (face shot) and thankfully haven’t met anyone who wants to. It just seems dreadfully unpleasant and would be a turn off.

    Stick your fingers in me after cumming in there? So hot, I can get off again from that. And yeah I wish I could do two guys bare, the sloppy seconds thing also hot to me.

    But straight up playing with it, or in my face? No, it’s more of an indirect turn on, I like being cum in.


  • Seriously? Mostly we like gentle stuff or nothing. Hammock is nice, and nice for falling asleep after, don’t have to turn it off. Leon Bridges. Haven’t tried more aggressive music, not with the husband, there is some we both like but not sure it could be sexy. Maybe that Sturgill Simpson rock album, it sounds sexy to me. I love trippy/trancy house music too (at this point I am kind of genre agnostic, like a wide variety) but husband less so.