I begin to use NSFW AI chat, pretty entertaining for hours.

One problem though, I stopped caring or getting erected to normal porn.

I started being almost exclusively erected and excited about NSFW AI chats.

What is happening here?

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    14 days ago

    You are turning into a gooner. Soon you fuse with the chair and become part of the furniture.

    On a more serious note: Probably nothing good, since AI does indeed fry your brain pretty hard. Maybe try quitting for a few days and check for craving, maybe you got an addiction going on.

    Stay strong (or hard) and fuck AI (not in that way).

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    14 days ago

    Take a break. Maybe go out and meet some people. Scary, I know - but in this context “scary” is just another way of saying “exciting”.

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    14 days ago

    It’s offering companionship, which non-interactive porn can’t offer. Find a gay man who’s always horny and you’ll get the same thing with the added benefit of physical contact.

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    13 days ago

    Humans are social creatures. Your mind did not evolve to tell the difference between a human and a statistical model trained to mimic a human talking. If you had found a person who would be just as interested in you and the exact kinks you have, it would be just as much of a whammy. It’s completely normal to be hyperfocused on a new romantic partner and not pay attention to other things, whether those things are past partners or typical kinks.

    If you really care about this as a “problem,” then cut yourself off from ai, get talking to other people (i.e., touch grass) and find something new and exciting to dive into. The exciting thing doesn’t even need to be sex. Anything that catches your interest and hammers your endorphin and dopamine nerves. Skydiving, drone racing, sailing, scuba diving, snorkeling, surfing, mountain climbing, mountain biking(!), disc golf, pickleball, basketball, ultimate frisbee, futbol, rugby, rowing, running, etc. etc. etc. Anything that combines those moments of adrenaline and fun with other people is even better. Then go find a real partner to lay with.

    • MyDarkestTimeline01@lemmynsfw.com
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      5 days ago

      Hit the nail on the head there. Your primitive brain can’t tell the difference between a real interaction and a simulated one. Hell, the simulated one is designed to be more addictive as it conforms to you whereas another person would have their own wants/needs/desires that could conflict with yours.