Hit the nail on the head there. Your primitive brain can’t tell the difference between a real interaction and a simulated one. Hell, the simulated one is designed to be more addictive as it conforms to you whereas another person would have their own wants/needs/desires that could conflict with yours.
NTR is more of a unwilling person being cheated on.
Mostly because it involves a complete betrayal of trust. And that hurts on a deep level that other kinks might not touch.
Cheating. It’s fetishizing cheating.
I wish my wife would be a little more rough with me. I’ve asked her to, but she’s very submissive by nature and I just don’t think she has it in her.
Take about ten inches from my belt line and make it height. Other than that I’m pretty ok with my body.
Username checks out.
I understand that some people may not be comfortable vocalizing during, especially with someone new, but it needs to be done. I’m a dude, so how am I going to(for lack of a better phrase) train a new girl up if I just sit there and give no direction?
If I wanted to disappoint two people at once I’d have dinner with my mother in law and her husband.
Nope. Mostly because we have vastly different types of women. His ex wife I would charitably call a Ragged Anne doll come to life with the same body shape.
It’s a certain stance. Where her hands are kinda behind her back and she pushes out her chest. It’s an attention grabbing stance and it works on me every damn time.
For me, it’s kinda like a physical affirmation that I did something for her. Bonus points for me if I can still see drops of her in my beard when we go to take a shower afterwards.
I’ll speak for myself;
On a surface level: How handsome/hot I am, how ‘big’ I am(yes, lie to me), how ‘good’ I am.
On a deeper level: How much you love me, how much you need me, how happy I make you.
On my filthiest level: How much you need/want/ love me in you most unhinged way.
Can confirm; am ugly and short. I look like what Gimli would look like if he let himself go and was a punk skater in his teens and early 20s. Managed to wife up a big titty goth girl who is WAY out of my league.
I believe the joke is that you aren’t going to be able to last much longer. Or that you’re about to dedicate your life to her.
Well, it’s a good thing no one is going to try and force you into it.
Either 2, 4, 6, 8, or 10. Any of those and I’d be happy.
I mean before even thinking of thinking about trying it you need to have a partner you can trust and as these situations are agreed upon before hand, there are usually agreed upon rules involved. Like “spank and slap me, don’t punch and choke me”. Beas with all things trust and communication before hand, and being a vigilant partner always.
This. No notes.
And while you do have a point, there’s usually at least a small percentage of real desire in a fantasy. I just don’t think most people could suspend disbelief for long enough for NTR to be “sexy” to them.
We also can’t discount that IRL traumas can factor into a person’s perceptions of kinks. Someone who’s loved through infidelity, pretty common these days unfortunately, is less likely to find porn glorifying it to be enticing. Most likely it’ll trigger revulsion.
But, as with all things involving humans, there are no absolutes. People are weird.