The obvious in my mind would be a wand of some kind. Its just such a generally useful type of vibrator, can be pleasurable for any genitals and comes in many sizes and strengths.

Less obvious one would be a cock ring if you are a penis wielding individual. They’re unobtrusive and can give you a further measure of control over your erection/orgasm. Can help is a number of different scenarios. So what about you folks? What is your toy you think everyone should try?

  • ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.worldEnglish
    14·
    15 days ago

    The Liberator Wedge sex pillow.

    https://www.liberator.com/original-wedge-sex-pillow.html

    It is hands down my most used sex toy. You might be saying “a pillow isn’t a sex toy”, but yes it is. It’s enhanced couples sex experiences more than any cock ring, vibe, or dildo ever could. Almost every time I have sex, I hear “Get the wedge” and I know it’s time for some serious fucking.

    Yeah, it’s stupid expensive for a pillow, but it’s the only sex toy I have kept and used through multiple partners. There are also loads of cheaper knockoffs but I can’t speak to their quality as I haven’t used them. I swear I am not a rep for the company or anything. I genuinely love the product.

  • MuttMutt@lemmy.worldEnglish
    6·
    15 days ago

    The wands are well worth having. I personally suggest a cordless version. Same power as the corded one but nothing to get in the way when being used with a partner and changing positions. BTW as point of reference I had a friend who had one of the original Hitachi Magic Wands and the cordless version I picked up works just as well, the one I bought also included a couple attachments for each of us to enjoy and the battery lasts right around an hour.

    Vibrating eggs are also fun. It’s a blast when you have a remote controlled one, especially if you are in public and you have someone turn it on at random. Plus you can insert one and follow it with another toy or a partner. App controlled ones can be fun if you and/or your partner are traveling alone but still want to play.

    Another toy that can be fun is the rabbit ear on a stick vibrator. The main body is about 1.5" in diameter with the vibrating weight near the stick part, the vibration is amplified through the stick part. Anyway it can be used directly on the clit or just below the head on the underside of dick.

    Also buy some toy cleaner, regular soaps damage most soft materials over time. And be sure to clean your toys before first use.

  • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    5·
    15 days ago

    Honestly everybody should have at least a small pile of bedroom “50 shade’s” kink implements. Some ribbon or rope for ties, some cuffs or restraints, a plug starter set, maybe a cheap riding crop. You’d be surprised how much mileage you can get out of just having something available for when the mood strikes.

    I’d also personally agree with having a vibrator(and dildo too) even if it’s not your cup of tea. You never know when your partner or company might need an extra hand getting there.

    • zshornyposting@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      4·
      15 days ago

      Absolutely! Some people have so much of an easier time with vibration than just manual stimulation. Restraints are definitely fun too, whether it be rope or cuffs

    • zshornyposting@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      1·
      13 days ago

      Have a variant of this from exotic erotics. It has a suction base which has let me stick it to the shower wall to dry off and even to the ceiling of the bathroom once as a gag

    • zshornyposting@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      2·
      13 days ago

      Interesting, I never would have guessed that would work well. Probably needs to be replaced pretty often to remain sanitary though.

      • RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        2·
        12 days ago

        I only did it like 3 times when really horny, I don’t know what happened to it…but it was rough, and it would 100% only work for me.