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LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone to Mental Health@lemmy.worldEnglish · 10 days ago

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Advice!

LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone to Mental Health@lemmy.worldEnglish · 10 days ago
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  • jupyter_rain@discuss.tchncs.de
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    Staying in the bushes, observing everyone:

    • Good for Depression (is outside)
    • Good for anxiety (no direct contact with people)
    • Good for serial killer vibes (+10 creepyness)
    • WhiskyTangoFoxtrot@lemmy.world
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      Among the bushes.

    • Sabata@ani.social
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      I’m not qualified to touch grass, or anything grass-adjacent like a bush.

      • jupyter_rain@discuss.tchncs.de
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        Why, which qualifications does one need other than having enough weight to not float away?

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          Consent seems pretty important, and I know one or more parties that dose not want to be outside.

  • SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml
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    By ‘peak’ they just mean ‘not a local minimum’

    • Coelacanth@feddit.nu
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      To quote Expedition 33: “maybe contentment is the highest form of happiness”.

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        I’ve thought for a while that happiness is the removal of major stressors.

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    Maybe that’s why people hangout on porches & stoops?

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      Exactly my thought. This just sounds like being in your garden/porch/balcony/… and I totally agree that it is superb for your mental

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        Probably also why eating outside on the restaurant porch/terrace is better than just inside the restaurant.

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    This is why people hang out on the stoop.

  • Match!!@pawb.social
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    that’s a patio

  • SavvyWolf@pawb.social
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    I’ve been told that going outside and having a walk is good for anxiety as well, though.

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    Staying at the house is absolutely not good for anxiety.

    • Asswardbackaddict@lemmy.world
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      That’s how you get to phobic

  • Evil_Shrubbery@lemmy.zip
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    Cat

  • Archangel1313@lemmy.ca
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    Also, safety from earthquakes.

  • NochMehrG@feddit.org
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    Now I know why my cat does this!

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    I think this is what French balconies are for. You are still under your roof but also kinda outside

  • Jake Farm@sopuli.xyz
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    Giving into anxiety doesnt make it better.

  • Texas_Hangover@sh.itjust.worksBanned
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    I loiter about the front yard drinking beer. That shit works.

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    Or it becomes bad for both 😓

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