Definetely weird.

I don’t really think I have kinks or fetishes. I do have curiosities and try to satisfy them, if feasible.

I indulged in a few but it did not really change anything. Guess I’m just dull.

Whatever you see fit. Nobody has the right to tell you otherwise.

Ask why. Try to understand. It may be shocking but it is not my life but it someone I love. So, respect first, respect second, respect last.

My respect. That’s some tough history.

It smells like reheated puritanism in here… Glad to know the more things change, the more they stay the same.

No, it would not matter to me. I wouldn’t ask, either. People deserve their privacy. But I’m aware of how outdated that concept may sound or be, nowadays. If I got to know, I’d like to know from the start. Because… yes.

The least I’d expect would be for the person to respect me and make sure everything was well and safe, before condoms could be considered to be overlooked. I always made sure to watch my health in regards to others.

I’m aware that for this hypothetical STDs are to be diaregarded but still…

But “body count”? What happened to “sex partners” or “lovers”? Got too clinical or too intimate? I’d like to understand the almost pathological need of lingo nowadays to create distance or sound military. In this case, both at the same time. Let’s dehumanize ourselves a bit more.

Going back to the original question again:

No, it does not matter how many people warmed their sheets or enjoyed their bits. Good for them, got lucky, but I get to keep the prize. Maybe share a bit, if we get a bit more on the wild side.

Let’s raise the stakes. What if the person is/was a sex worker? A prostitute or maybe a porn actor or actress? Does their line of work makes them less worthy of having emotional needs? Less human? Less of a person? Not really. In my understanding they are as deserving, if not even more, of having someone love, respect and support them.

I remember watching this documentary on sex workers years back and how this actress described her need, after a long day of work of being fucked, to go home, have a shower, have a nice meal with her partner and afterwards go to bed and make love in the missionary position. Telling, isn’t it?

And in the extreme scenario of that long line of people stemming from some trauma or perhaps a mental health condition, again, it should not matter at all.

I’m now available for your downvotes and vitriole.

Do yourself a favour and go to a nudist beach or a nude resort.

Spend some time there. Meet some people and chat.

Being naked is not sexual. We sexualize nakedness because we are usually taught from very young age to always be dressed and seeing exposed skin feels… naughty. When it really isn’t.

A nudist/clothing optional society would work like any other. If nudist, it would probably have lot less taboos. But keep in mind clothes also have a practical side to it.

Putting it bluntly: you can’t.

If it’s to the point of requiring surgery - although what is deemed as surgery requiring varies from place to place - there is no work aroud, no coping mechanisms.

That narrow of a time window, on my own personal experience, tells your condition is pretty serious.

Does your jaw clicks when you eat or talk?

Maybe some physical therapy can ease you a bit. A good therapist may even work on the information you may give them, from what you remember from when you were diagnosed.

Ball gags, or anything that forces your jaw open, are off the table. I’m making some guess work here but I think you have an higher than average risk of getting your jaw locked if you force it. I can’t describe to you how painful that is and how even more painful it is to have it reset.

I respect your fantasy/fetish/kink but you are better off putting this one to rest.

Give what you can and whoever complains about it can go fuck themselves. And reading what you’ve posted, you grant a great joy ride for a lot of lucky dudes.

I sincerely wish you can prove all of my worst expectations wrong, without endangering yourself in the process. And hope to read about if it ever happens.

Stay strong.

It’s already been said but I’m going to stress it: have your TMJ checked.

A simple x-ray exam will be enough to determine if whatever is causing you discomfort has an organic reason, at the bone structure level.

Does your jaw pop or locks or catches if you yawn for too long? If so, you may have a disaligned joint or be suffering from some joint condition.

If not, you may have something bothering you at the tendons/muscles level.

Hopefully, it is something you can work around, with gradual exercise.

One word of advice: ball gags or those implements used to keep the mouth open are to be avoided. Those put the joint, muscles and tendons under pressure. My best compliments to those who use it but it does horrors to the joints.

I’m really confused.

Cappucino? Fine.

Naked lady? Also fine?

Eye rolling from trying a cappucino? Strange.

Stripping after it? Stranger.

I’m glad you did. Very nice picture and very nice setting. Feels very intimate. Boudoir style.

Wherever I can or am requested.

Go sleep it off, which I hope you’ve had by this time. Then do yourself a favour, and find some couch time. Just the thought process that led you to posting what you did should be a good tell you’re in need for a review.

Either that or you are an epic troll.

I think we can agree that underage is by default a crime, so that is that.

Anything more than a couple of years between partners throws me off. Even if was for the sake of a one night stand, it does not work for me. A long term commited relationship makes it even worse.

Writing good erotica is tricky. I should know; I try to do it myself. There is a very thin line between being graphic but only enticing and being graphical and dirty. Reddit was not a good source. Here, what I have found is mostly AI slop.

Feet are not supposed to be the relevant part. The person to which they are attached, yes. The following is to much information but my partner loves to tease me when approaching her from behind for an on all fours romp. My bits are just on the right place for a passing caress before conecting. It’s not the feet: it’s what she uses her feet for.

Pubes are fun. If you’re in to cum shots, dark pubes make for good contrast. And when it dries, it makes the area sticky. A reminder of what made it that way.

A wild, unkept, pubic area can be messy, make personal hygiene more complicated and even be uncomfortable. A well kept is a treat for the eye.

Bare does facilitate oral but I like the musty odor that clings to the hair. Pheronomes are still a thing for humans, just really underplayed.

Can I start by commenting on your post first? You give a lot to start the conversation.

Feet. It’s not a kink, per se, to me, but I had a girlfriend give me a foot job, unprompted and it was an amazing experience. First was the distance between us. I couldn’t exactly reach her - besides her feet - so all that was left was eye contact, verbal communication and body language. Second it was the mechanics of the act itself; it takes dexterity. Third, it was the act itself: it is unusual, it is awkward but it can become really fun. Fourth, it is the skin texture. No amount of foot cream can make feet as soft as hands. She skin is thicker, denser. All together, makes for a fun experience. It’s not really about the feet, in my view, but still.

Breeding… been there, done that. Touches very basic and primal instincts. Can be really fun, if people trust each other.

Now for me…

Current kinks. I really can’t put a finger on it. Pornography stopped working for me a long time ago. I still enjoy erotica, though.

What just cuts me off is age gap and degradation.

Was the water cold? You seem tense.

You got naked, bored and horny?

Oh! A wood nymph!

Does this means we achievied a point of agreement or further discord?

You should ask more questions and assume less.

What motivated my vote for decriminalizing abortion in my country was ending the loss of lives and ending the unreasonable and unjustifiable suffering and imprisionment of the women that had to undergo highly dangerous means and procedures to get one. Many women lost their lives and their chance to have children, when they chose to.

This forced law to be drawn and put in place to make sure any woman could get acess to free, informed and safe ways to end an unwanted pregnancy and would have pre and post interruption of pregnancy follow up, to ensure the woman’s physical and mental health and access to proper means of contraception. This also includes verifying if the woman is not subject to abuse and does not abuse abortion.

Abortion was made safe and a last resort, as it should.

I am in favour of medically assisted death, as I am aware that many individuals suffer horrors until reaching their end, be it phisically, mentally, both or in any other way I am unaware of. What I am against is about banalizing euthanasia. It must be a last resort, when nothing can be done to aliviate or mitigate suffering or no cure or solution is available.

People should be allowed to live the best life they can. It is a basic human right. Resorting to terminate life because a person is tired or was defrauded of any expectation is plain basic stupidity. It’s an easy way for an already crooked system to justify not changing.

I wish and want people to get help, be supported, receive the best care humanly possible to give to whatever may be their ailment and, if truly no other option is available, then, make their end as peaceful and painless as possible, with no consequences for healthcare personel, family or friends.

How about that for an anwer, you sanctimonious buffoon?

And I wish I could trip on my ego; meant I had one to begin with, instead of being a paper bag full of self doubt 90% of my time.