Good news, relatively speaking.

I’ve been where you are. Most important: don’t let yourself start to take responsibility for managerial decisions. If they want you to stand in the corner on your head and cluck like a chicken, it’s their money. 🤷 Don’t let that change how you see yourself as a programmer.

And roll your eyes in private.

Is this a problem for you or merely annoying? I mean the difference between you being blamed for their poor results and you merely being inconvenienced by doing extra work.

You might need to train yourself to accept the situation as it is and hope for someone in authority to make things better. It’s not easy, but this might be a good chance for you to build that skill. 🤷

Can you talk openly with your manager about this situation? Would it be helpful to you to propose to your manager that you help that group? Maybe your manager would appreciate your attempt at leadership.

Good luck.

You don’t have to commit to any one thing in this life. I’m doing very little at age 51 that I was doing at age 27.

I also wasn’t doing what I truly wanted to do most in life until my 40s.

https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/133403-we-should-do-away-with-the-absolutely-specious-notion-that

If you have social anxiety, then why are you blaming women for being difficult to talk to or flirt with?

Women didn’t get me until I grew into my 20s. For some of us, it takes longer, and it feels terrible in the meantime. Peace.

The cumulative pedantry is almost all the fun.

And it should be displaceraptor, dropping the last syllable, otherwise the quotient would be velocityraptor.

This is the kind of paradox that leads us (I mean humans more generally) to look for some fundamental assumption we’re making about time that will turn out to be wrong. I assume that’s true although I wonder whether it’s literally impossible for us to even imagine how time “truly” works, let alone measure it.

I was a kak user for several years and am giving hx an honest try this year. So far, I’m quite happy.

(and yes, I’ve been both an emacs and vim user.)

hx

I meditate. Very occasionally, I still am not ready to sleep, but it still helps me to do that.

I listen to a podcast, if nothing else works.

Mostly, I don’t worry about not sleeping. It took me years to feel OK with not sleeping, but here I am.

Peace.

If by “now”, you mean at least the past 20 years, then yes.

Yes, you diiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiid…

Best way block kick: no be there.

Dumb question: do you have a key on your keyboard that disables the microphone? I don’t have my laptop in front of me, but I know there’s a key that disables the trackpad and another that disables the camera. I realized that I’d accidentally hit those by going through something similar to this.

Good luck.

Kat.

Les Oulhamr fuyaient dans la nuit épouvantable. Fous de souffrance et de fatigue, tout leur semblait vain devant la calamité suprême: le Feu était mort.

Are there no prisons?

Are there no workhouses?

Plausible is more like conceivable.

It’s possible that when I slam my hand on the table, it will go through the table, but it’s not plausible. We can’t imagine it actually happening, even though we know it can.

I believe the dumbness of scams conforms to the Archimedean property.