It reminds me of the “allies” who insist that in LGBTQIA+ the A stands for ally instead of asexual. Literally replacing a marginalized sexual identity community with being tangential to the larger community.
While these questions aren’t as bigoted as having “straight pride” events or asking for “white history” month, they see all born of the same fundamental misunderstanding of a given community in context of a larger biased society.
Another white cis gay man dusting his hands off and says “Well I got mine” then pulls up the ladder behind him.