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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • Are you exclusive? Do you pay for other GFE or similar that don’t involve her? Does she want/seek out romantic relationships that aren’t transactional, outside of you? Do you have feelings for each other? Does she consider herself a sexworker? Do y’all do boyfriend/girlfriend stuff, or is your relationship just sexual? If you feel like elaborating on that last question at all- what’s your favorite thing to do together?

    Sometimes it’s hard to convey tone over text, so just to be clear, these are all genuine and non judgmental questions. I do sex work (if you count only fans), so def no judgment there, towards either of you. I’ve been in a “relationship” for over 10 years with a man who doesn’t know my real name, our relationship is purely sexual and in the last 5 or so years has been mostly over text. I think we love each other, in a way that makes sense for what we are doing, but not in a way that would make sense to anyone looking in from the outside. He wanted a more GFE style relationship, but I got a lil nervous about making it too romantic.


  • Babylove, can you re-read what you just wrote, please? “…afraid to your bones” ? That’s a panic attack. It doesn’t have to be like the movies where you fall down, hyperventilating. I come from an abusive home too, so I have a pretty good idea of who told you you have to be small, but you don’t have to minimize your experiences or silence your struggles! I’m just a stranger on the internet, so take my opinion w a grain of salt, or just throw it right away if you want. You deserve to be understood and respected.

    Hope you have a calm and peaceful day xoxo










  • I used to work in the seafood industry and I got invited to a seafood expo once. There were tons of vendors and since I’m super poor and not fancy, i ate everything. Figured I’d never get another chance. I ate so much caviar and roe that day.

    It’s fuckin’ nasty. Every species and preparation I tried. Tbf I was at an expo, not a nice resturant, but also tbf, it was an expo, they were trying to market their best products.