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Cake day: October 17th, 2023

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  • I didn’t want kids til I met my wife when I was 38. I knew she was the one pretty early on and I knew that if I wanted to to keep dating her I’d have to reconsider my position. I had my first kid at 40 and my 2nd is on the way, and being a father is awesome.

    I ended a 5 1/2 year relationship because I didn’t want kids with her. The partner you’re with definitely matters.



  • I’m not hot. I’m not ugly, but also not hot and had plenty of dates from dating apps when I was on them.

    Good job, not a slob, decent bio, and quality photos of myself.

    I was also really selective in who I swiped on. I didn’t swipe right on every hot chick. I swiped right on girls I found attractive and best guess from profile lifestyles were similar.

    I went out with plenty of attractive women, hooked up with a handful and dated a few. I also went out on plenty of bad dates, the girl who carried a dead lizard she found on the ground. The autistic racist. The girl with gnarly teeth.

    Then I randomly met my wife through a coworker.