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Cake day: July 4th, 2023

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  • Makes total sense to me! Being an ally and being progressive has nothing to do with your tastes, preferences and comfort levels.

    Just because you didn’t like it doesn’t mean anything at all about how accepting you are of others choices. If you feel still weird enough that it’s bothering you it’s OK to talk about it with your friends/family or a professional.


  • What I’d recommend is getting a scrap of paper, dividing into small squares, and quickly sketch out 4-8 possible ideas, keep it small and rough and you can quickly compare how the ideas will look and pick your favourite.

    Could have snow and a moon, a big window if you want it still in a house, a snowman, a sky and santa in the sky, lots of christmassy ideas.