I can be on a different continent opening a can of tuna, yet my cat will still be next to me in a jiffy with his “you gonna finish that” look
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Phoonzang@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why do some people hate drinking water?222·2 months ago“Because I’m not poor! I got all the water I need from food”.
My boomer dad, constantly suffering from health issues because of poor hydration. Does not help that the only liquids he consumes are beer and wine.
Phoonzang@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Have your parents ever said something so unhinged that you’re just left standing there like🧍♂️?17·2 months agoAfter my mother passed, I spent more time with my father than before, just because I thought it was the right thing to do (and my siblings really did not care that much). I realized why I did not have a lot if contact before, he us a classic toxic boomer narcissist.
Spending more time with him did not mean that we grieved my mother’s loss as a family, it was just him monopolizing the grief and needing an audience wallow in self pity. I had no say in any aspect of the funeral, he did not listen to anything I said, he never even once asked how I was, and when I talked about stuff from my life (because someone else asked), he started talking over me, making the conversation about him again. Classic narcissist parent playbook.
At some point i was fed up, and told him as much, which of course did not go over well. Complete disbelief, he acted as if I had insulted him, yelling, accusations of being ungrateful, all the bells and whistles. Not a single thought that this behaviour might have been wrong. I just left and cut contact. After a week or so he wrote me what I think was meant as an apology. What he “apologized” for was that because of his greatness, he was always the center of attention which of course emphasized my insignificance, which he can see made me feel bad. It was so grotesque that I burst out in manic laughter, my wife was seriously worried.
The good thing about this, it made me slowly unwrap what I now realize is a lot of childhood drama (which I thought was normal), and understand why my siblings basically don’t want anything to do with him. Still struggling to take the step to seek professional therapy (which I know I need), but I already feel better starting to understand that how my father treated me was not because I am worthless, but because he was a really bad dad.
Phoonzang@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•New fuel cell could enable electric aviationEnglish61·2 months agoBut that’s additional value! Seriously, they Factor the price of NaOH into their cost efficiency estimation, yes, they use the retail price of NaOH to offset the sodium cost, and only by that are comparable to synthetic aviation fuel. This is beyond ridiculous.
Phoonzang@lemmy.worldto People Twitter@sh.itjust.works•Everything wants me to pay rent13·3 months agoThe latest season of Black Mirror had an Episode just like this.
Phoonzang@lemmy.worldto Gay: News, Memes and Discussion@lemmy.world•Gay sex in the VaticanEnglish4·3 months agoOh there’s plenty bottoms. The whole schtick of the Catholic church is suffering and obedience.
Been there, done a lot of them, uh, that.
Phoonzang@lemmy.worldto A Boring Dystopia@lemmy.world•‘My Property Tax Went From $15K to a Life-Altering $91K a Year’115·3 months agoBut those things do not scale with the (alleged) value oft the property, but with things like property size, number oft occupants, curb length etc. Or could even be billed at actual cost (your garbage example).
As someone who travelled to the ZS for work (under different Visas(… Not really shocked. The shit some CBP officers pulled during immigration at the airport. “What do you mean, you are here to work, don’t we have Americans to do the job?”, " Why do we invited Europeans to America to speak at an American conference?", “You’re here because a Swiss company bought an American company? This can’t be right.”
And this was mostly in California. During Obama. I can only imagine how these interaction would go now, when those notjubs feel encouraged by their leader and on the right side of history.
Not going back there for a long time.
Phoonzang@lemmy.worldto World News@quokk.au•After 3 years of full-scale war in Ukraine, Europe announces plan to ban all Russian gas imports7·3 months agoNonono, they plan to do it. Might take anorher 3 years for execution.
Phoonzang@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Sometimes we create our own problems.English3·3 months agoIt would in a properly free market. But late stage capitalism’s goal is monopolization, because it maximises profit. Or to quote Marx: “Monopoly is the inevitable end of competition, which engenders it by a continual negation of itself.”
And this is exactly what Steinbeck is describing here: “you buy food from us, at our prices, or nothing at all. We’d rather destroy our product than to sell lower.” And they can do this because no one has access to the products, or the means of production (e. g. the land to grow produce).
And this is where we are today with Amazon, Nestle, Walmart and so on. They don’t have any real competition anymore.
The Problem is, being unprepared worked out for them because they always had someone around who was prepared. It’s the same people who say afterwards: “You see, wasn’t that bad, all worked out fine”. Yes, it worked out fine because someone else was prepared and saved your ass. The worst of those people then also somehow turn it into their own achievement, which makes them think like that: “Why would someone carry around $thing$, I never do that and yet I still manage to save the day.”
Unfortunately, being such a person seems to be a requirement to get hired for middle management.
Muss jedes mal lachen wenn ich beim Anmelden von Sperrmüll exakt un detailliert auflisten muss, was ich rausstelle. Das einzige, was ich mit 100% Sicherheit sagen kann ist dass das, was ich rsusstelle nicht mehr da ist, dafür irgendwas anderes.