Worked at vet office, anything like urine or feces must be rinsed off thoroughly or it will smell. Obviously soap is needed too. Enough water and soap will get rid of it, although other cleaners incl enzymatic ones will work faster. No matter what, all that cleaner and soap has to be fully rinsed or it’ll still smell.

He should powerwash it outside or at a carwash. Or, if in an apartment he could rinse it for a while in the shower.

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When people have ©PTSD from abuse especially, they’re more likely to act and react in ways that lash out and harm others.

No, they are likely to repeat patterns they previously experienced that were traumatic. People only harm others if they give themselves permission to do so. Abuse is almost never accidental. Nearly no one “snaps out of control.” Lundy Bancroft, in Why Does He Do That? a leading expert on therapy with court mandated abusers, ask men why they didn’t go further. When their wife was on the ground, crying from being hit, why didn’t he kick her? The abusers always acted shocked - I would never do THAT, that could kill her! Because they were in control the whole time.

The escalation re: gray rock is called behavior extinction. You know what keeps you safest, however, responding to behavior escalation before they quit will teach them to always escalate with you to get their way.

It may upset you but it is true. It is not my job to caretake or manage your feelings. You manage your triggers, not anyone else. Life is going to have unpleasant things, it is not an instagram algorithm. Tough tiddies, any talk of trauma will be about trauma.

Strawman, ad hom, ad hom

You are literally defending white supremacists itt with all of your comments. It isn’t an interpretation thing.

She is registered Republican since June 2024, is from Spokane, dad is a Trumper, American Eagle CEO is a Trumper. Trump and JD Vance already came out in defense of her, more than Vance’s own wife when she was insulted.

Trump is a white supremacist.

It is blatantly white supremacy.

You are defending it.

You are therefore defending white supremacy.

Couldn’t be more clear.

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/articles/yes-sydney-sweeney-registered-republican-131433446.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAM6mnZqJLe5BheLVgOJJ1dlUMCY4IuVQhG6bSffWow5NBULR0CIFB3782tB-LiButrIxuxOt-NVPQRPtZWD-ow4vl1uicz-M6JIM_y3Ui0e21vz_b2BEB74SNEOOS2YnYpMbMclxdjGFm4p11qBxH8Pufg2WRQKN1FdwQ1sEC5S6

Lol, lmfao even. Got it, you are a white supremacist

There is something called “collective narcissism,” and a lot of this info is in various studies and works. Here’s one study about gender narcissism: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-020-01193-3

His hatred of blackness is based on a delusion, an unreality, a false narrative. Therefore, it doesn’t actually need to make sense. He just compulsively uses that narrative to either feel 1) validated, smart, amazing, grandiose or 2) hated, a monster, the biggest victim and villain. He can even flip back and forth between these. These feelings are HIGHLY ADDICTIVE* for them, and it is what they prioritize over EVERYTHING ELSE.

So it isn’t about making sense. It is about feeling grandiose and vulnerable. That’s it. It never had anything to do with black people in the first place, because the narratives he has around them werentreal anyway. It was about picking something he could get supply from.

_*Addictions aren’t really real but for the purpose of this conversation, supply is like an addictive drug

You’re a racist PoS. Go fuck yourself, ya sniveling racist coward.

But like, the kinds of modern diets that produces obesity are traditionally missing vitamins so, it could easily just be that eating a family-size bag of Cheetos for a meal will leave you fat with malnutrition.

This. This chronic malnutrition overlays with environmental pressures such as sickness and toxins, which like I’ve literally explained thoroughly, the liver and vitamin stores then get even more depleted as they use these vitamins in your immune system to deal with this. People then crave high fat foods and gain weight chasing the small amounts of vitamins in their food. The vitamin deficiency causes the cravings. If you give them vitamins, esp vitamin k and vitamin e, they will not seek out high fat foods as much.

I have celiac disease, a fat malabsorption diease. I used to crave sticks of butter, like eating it like a chocolate bar. This (eating sticks of butter) is actually so common in people with celiac that it’s one of the first things I ask about when I meet someone else with it. Now that I have proper vitamin levels, I crave yogurt, fruit, and lettuce, and biting butter makes me wanna yarf. A sign I need to supplement or eat fat soluble vitamins is if I start really craving fats.

Good luck

Literally nearly every reply you’ve made itt. I won’t quote your whole body of work, go look through your own account.

You. You are gaslighting us when you claim it’s “overreacting.”

Bike thieves move fast, and a lot of time they are in cars, it’s not always some random guy on the street. I saw a brand new Lexus pull up to a bike at a red light in a fancy neighborhood, guy was actively in the road and parked blocking the lane, and stole the bike in literally 40seconds and was gone. No license plates. I called it in but I doubt they did anything about it. And I’ll never risk my life for a bike lol.

“People are overreacting” is just gaslighting. I don’t think this person has good intentions.

No, she literally goes on a lecture about how genes are passed down from parent to offspring, it is explicitly about genes.

There’s also overlap with power narcissism (“might makes right”, nearly always ties in to physical narcissism and intellectual narcissism), money narcissism (classism), gender narcissism (misogyny), and savior narcissism (the stuff you see in charities and churches, evangelicalism).

And more ofc. There’s no limit to delusions someone can have.

All of that overlaps because there is intersectionality of narcissitic abusers, who then look for victims who safisfy that. We focus a lot of intersectionality of victims and not their abusers. But it’s why Ted Bundy picked young white attractive college girls with long straight dark hair to attack - all of those aspects represent his own narcissistic delusions, they are not the fault or problem of the victim, but of the abuser projecting onto the victim. They look for perfect dolls or teddy bears to project onto. Ted Bundy was otherwise perfectly safe to Anne Rice and most people he encountered because she wasn’t someone he could fully project onto - his narcissistic delusion enforcement wasn’t triggered by her.

So for eg it isn’t so much that Native American women are more likely to be murdered because they are Native women, but that there’s a widespread narcissistic belief set that murdering Native American women is not a concern, so much so that police and media and much of the public ignore it or actively aid it. And now we see this issue magnifying with the deportations - where are all the women? Latinos are just Native Americans who were colonized by Spanish speakers, after all.

But when we focus on abusers instead of the abused, the abusers realize they will get cut off from supply and they have a huge pushback for control.

And yeah it all ties into sexual stuff too

Read again:

Then these delusions can be applied to others not even in that group, because it was never based on reality to begin with. That’s why he’s calling white people the n word, he simply wants supply and it doesn’t matter if what he says makes sense or is rational.

You’re doing a lot of defense for fascists here. Why?

You can pay to look like that if you want.

Your first paragraph is you literally agreeing with my premise.

I’d believe you if you actually read the studies I posted and didn’t just sealion nonsense. I have given a lot of evidence.

I’m here to make sure acturate and reasonable information is what we agree on

The onus is on you to make a compelling case.

I didn’t bother looking at any of your other links, by the way. Drowning someone in citations

Gee, so you’re a liar. Since you clearly DON’T care about the info, I assume it is because you have some personal narrative you are protecting, and with fat phobia, that’s an ED. That’s not an insult. It’s a condition that you are not addressing amd putting onto others, causing harm. It’s also not an insult to say you refuse to learn when you yourself say you refuse to learn. I’m sure you will look for studies to confirm your ED so you don’t have to change.

It is better to have adequate vitamin intake, weight is simply a side effect of that and should not be the sole focus because it is caused by existing vitamin deficiencies and restricting vitamin intake worsens it. Again causing people to break diets and gain weight back, sometimes more. Telling a person with nutritional deficiencies to withhold food to heal is like telling someone with a broken leg to walk on it to heal (ie, medical torture).

I’m not going to explain much. WW2 happened forever ago, if you refuse to understand the context of a white girl with blue eyes saying she has great genes, whose dad is a Trumper from racist Spokane, doing an ad for a CEO who is a Trumper and whose son is doing a real estate deal for Trump, who is a blatant white supremacist that had Hitler’s speeches on his bedside table and leading the blatantly racist MAGA movement… With Trump and JD Vance both coming to defend her, more than JD ever did for the harassment his own wife faced… That’s on you.

The ad could’ve had more than one actress and said, “We have great genes/jeans.” It could have celebrated diversity. It didn’t, because their CEO is a white supremacist who teamed up with a white supremacist to make a white supremacist ad.