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Cake day: January 15th, 2024

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  • They are deeply insecure, ashamed, alone, anxious, and afraid. They CANNOT be faced with others confirming their worst fear: that something is deeply and terribly wrong with them. They’re basically emotionally disabled and can’t empathize, work together as a team, or be genuine. They completely lack accountability ir responsibility. In close relationships, they suck the life out of people the most because it makes them feel better about themselves and they choose this tactic in these relationships because that person is least likely to leave them.

    As a therapist, I’ve seen one, maybe two clinical narcissists. The one I remember best only came to therapy to get recognition for doing so but had NO insight into the nature of his issues.



  • Default-Mantis Lords theme (Hollow Knight) Spouse-Monster Smash (Monsters Inc.) Mom-Linus and Lucy (Peanuts) Brother-Party Ain’t a Party by Queen Pen Text notification-Koopa sound

    Oddly enough my dad doesn’t have a custom ringtone, may have to look into that. Everyone else isn’t special enough to get one.













  • Good and meh. Personal life is great. I’m able to engage in all the hobbies I want to and am particularly chuffed about learning to play piano. Got a new motorcycle last month that I actually enjoy riding.

    Marriage is pretty good. Got a bunch of child support earlier this year, which helped pay off most of my son’s medical debt.

    Work is…meh. I love my job but I’m over it when it comes to working in general.

    Health-wise… it’s okay considering how bad it can get. I don’t sleep well due to my heart pounding half or the whole night (been an ongoing thing for over a decade and no one can tell me why) so I take a blood pressure supplement (the only thing that helps). Always tired. I’ve become more of an introvert, which is completely fine because I really love my alone time. Have a good group of friends that I stay in touch with and occasionally socialize with.

    Overall, I have no complaints. Unsure about the government situation but I can’t get stuck in worrying about that because that dumpster fire will just keep burning. Hoping for enough resistance to keep things from exploding…