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Cake day: August 16th, 2023

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  • Democrats leadership is nothing but controlled opposition or absolute weak morons, take your pick. Either way they have no interest in the public’s best interest. Look no farther than the absolute NOTHINGNESS they’ve done to stop Trump every step of the way.

    Dem leadership is complicit in this Epstein coverup at the very least. Obligatory fuck trump/maga/conservatives/etc. etc. I’m not a both-sideser, but in this case both sides refuse to release the list or prosecute anyone other than Ghislaine.





  • What an emotionally immature meme, life isn’t a competition. It can be hard for people even when some have benefits and circumstances others don’t. You don’t know every detail and all of the context to everyone and trying to compete in the struggle Olympics doesn’t make you any more special than anyone else. You have no right to more sympathy just because you may have things harder:

    Life sucks for us all in one way or another. How about learning some empathy instead of trying to turn your struggles into a badge to flex on others with.





  • Absolutely but you’re leaving out a key concept here, which is pay attention to the reception. If they receive it badly that’s not a hard ‘no fuck off’ (well… unless it literally is), but if it continues to be received badly or even just neutrally, it’s important to recognize this.

    OP is worried about how men are judged by default (and understandably so, from both sides of this kind of situation), and they are clearly a little ‘too worried’ but really it’s more like being worried about the wrong part.

    People that have trouble with this kind of thing need to shift their perceptive from ‘how will they take it’ to ‘how did they take it’ and make an audible from that point instead of trying to predict the entire sequence. It’s not about the gender or anything else other than how they as a human being receive your attention which requires rational analysis in real time (which is likely where those with low self-esteem can run into trouble) and not falling back on your default perceptions to help cope with the results