Probably sex, for me.

I’d just do it with someone who wasn’t who I originally did it with because she wasn’t great in bed. The entire moment itself was just embarrassing for the both of us, moreso for me because of the time it last for which wasn’t long and just her seemingly doing it to get it out of the way. There was no passion in it, it was just a matter of “oh lets get you not a virgin anymore” deal and I felt it was tainted.

  • Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.caEnglish
    22·
    3 days ago

    Cook for my mom.

    She was going through a tough time at school and I decided to make something for her because I knew she was exhausted having to cook.

    It was the first time I ever cooked something more complex than a fried egg and certainly the first time I tried to make a complete meal.

    Looking back, it was pretty simplistic. Daal, stir fried string beans with chicken and normal white rice.

    Still, I’ll never forget how happy she looked coming home from school that day.

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@slrpnk.net
    31·
    3 days ago

    The entire moment itself was just embarrassing for the both of us

    That’s everyone’s first time, to a greater or lesser degree.

    For me, there’s nothing I’d want to do for the first time again. Whatever it would be, I’m better at it now than I was then.

  • thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world
    6·
    2 days ago

    i hate these posts because it reminds me of how much i miss my old friends and how much i’ve lost.

    but definitely the first time i smoked a bong with my best friend.

  • over_clox@lemmy.world
    14·
    3 days ago

    As a one time only event, as a first and a last, I wish I could go back and change the last words I ever spoke with my late father.

    In the hospital bed, he was fussing at me because I told him that I was cleaning trash and old food from his house. I didn’t expect him to fuss, I was only doing the right thing ya know.

    He passed away the next morning in hospital. I’m still sad to this day that our final conversation wasn’t more positive ☹️😭

  • AnabolicSpudsman@lemmy.caEnglish
    9·
    3 days ago

    I would set boundaries with my family sooner in life so I wouldn’t have to be this broken husk of an adult.

  • hperrin@lemmy.caEnglish
    7·
    3 days ago

    I’d love to play Control for the first time again. Such an amazing game.

    Also, to a lesser extent, I’d love to have my first scuba dive again. It felt so incredible to be in this other world, so close to ours, but so completely different. It still feels that way, but I’ve gotten more accustomed to it.

    • pebbles@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      3·
      3 days ago

      Ah dude I feel that so much with looking at pond samples under the microscope. It was and still is quite magical, but you can’t beat seeing it for the first time. Just a whole other world right there.

  • infinitevalence@discuss.onlineEnglish
    8·
    3 days ago

    Eve online that first year was one of the most amazing experiences of my life and undocking and flying around that first time is a feeling I would choose to do again.

    • vrek@programming.devEnglish
      1·
      3 days ago

      Eve was great as a community… Sucked as a game. That’s coming from someone with over a thousand hours.

      • infinitevalence@discuss.onlineEnglish
        7·
        3 days ago

        hey, no kink shaming! Its just one of, not my only, and it gave me my best friends, even after we all quit the game we remain dedicated and close.

          • infinitevalence@discuss.onlineEnglish
            2·
            2 days ago

            I had a really bad day a few months ago, and two of them were ready to get on a plane that afternoon if I had needed it. I dont know of any other game where I could find my people, and that would build a support group, and friend group willing to put everything on hold for each other. So yeah if I could relive the experience of undocking, flying around, and meeting my friends for spreadsheets, shenanigans, and space ships I would.

            So many amazing memories, staying up too late, getting a text message to drop everything and log in, fleet battles with nothing but silent professionalism on voice, logging into the test server and spending hours on meta tactics and ship loadouts, drunken ice mining in low sec, 5 person frigate gangs ransoming capital ships. That game, and that time had something special for all of us.

    • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      3·
      2 days ago

      Watching GOT along with everybody was a cultural phenomenon that tons of people missed out on forever. I am so, so lucky that I got into it during the first season. It eventually became an event, socially, that friends and family would do. Amazing memories. The ending was… God. The more I think about it, the bigger deal the shitty ending was. It could have been such a big talking point and discussion and climactic memory, culturally. But instead, it was just universally an enormous fizzle. Like what an actual epic colossal fumble