Do you care if your partner has had a lot of partners before you; does it turn you on that she has had a lot of dick inside her or do you absolutely get sick at the notion of the idea?
Do you care if your partner has had a lot of partners before you; does it turn you on that she has had a lot of dick inside her or do you absolutely get sick at the notion of the idea?
Five-ish. No, I can’t say I care that much about a partner’s count, but I am a bit embarrassed about mine.
From a sexpositive rando: the number doesn’t matter. You having a good time, good relationships, and good life is the only thing that matters. Sex and a healthy sexuality is an important part of all of those, number of partners is not.
And conversely, don’t let your good life be limited by poorly fitting partners or norms. Some compromise might be justified, but will never be sustainable. Find where and how you thrive and get as much of it as possible in your life. Regardless if it’s an orgy a week, regular emotionally intimate sex with a domestic partner, moresomes, self sex or whatever else that rocks your boat.
Hey, thanks. I appreciate that. It’s good advice <3
What is there to be embarassed about?
Five feels a bit low. At least lower than I would’ve expected to have by now.
Don’t let social norms dictate how you live your life. Do what (and who) makes you happy.
Five is the best number. Regardless of context. Plus I bet that’s higher than average.